Sunday, 6 June 2010

Thursday, 3 June 2010

Just to share about Islamic parenting.....

Full story can refer to here...who is lecturer in the same place mama and abah...

Begitulah resmi kepimpinan, harus ditunjukkan contoh melalui teladan yang baik, “Lead by example” kalau bahasa inggerihnya.

Jika kita mahu anak kita menjadi anak yang soleh dan sentiasa solat di awal waktu, kitalah yang harus menunjukkan contohnya, jika kita mahu anak kita rajin membaca dan tidak selalu menonton televisyen, kitalah cerminan mereka. Jangan jadi seperti ketam yang mengajar anaknya berjalan lurus...

Begitu juga jika kita mahu anak-anak kita taat kepada kita, mendengar kata dan tidak sering merajuk atau memberontak, itulah yang harus kita aplikasikan dalam muamalah kita bersama rakan-rakan dan lebih-lebih lagi muamalah kita bersama orang yang lebih tua dan ibu bapa kita.

Berpangkat seorang ayah, tidak semestinya kita tidak membuat kesilapan dan tidak semestinya kita tidak boleh ditegur oleh anak kita sendiri. Tidak semestinya setiap kata kita sebagai seorang ayah harus ditaati secara total tanpa disediakan ruang untuk perbincangan dan perbahasan.

Berada dalam sebuah keluarga, nilai-nilai musyawarah harus dipraktikkan, sebarang perbezaan pendapat haruslah ditangani sebaiknya dan tidak seharusnya kita sebagai ayah sentiasa berasa bahawa setiap pendapat kita adalah benar dan terbaik manakala pendapat anak-anak langsung tidak berguna.

Seorang ayah juga harus sentiasa muhasabah hubungannya dengan ahli keluarganya, kadang-kadang anak-anak tidak mahu mendengar kata kita mungkin kerana bosan dengan sikap kita yang terlalu memaksakan pendapat dan lebih penting lagi, muhasabahlah hubungan kita dengan Allah. Bila hubungan kita dengan Allah renggang, maka hubungan dengan anak-anak pun tidak mustahil akan menjadi renggang.

Kerana dialah jua yang membolak balikkan hati manusia.

Wednesday, 2 June 2010

Lunch Anniversary @ Lotus

Last Saturday(29.05.2010),one day before BBQ at Bolton Abbey........





















Info about this restaurant:
Location:
289, Palatine Road
Northenden,M22 4ET, Manchester, United Kingdom,
Phone:
0161 945 9711
Mon - Tues:
17:00 - 23:30
Thurs:
17:00 - 23:30
Fri:
12:30 - 23:30
Sat:
12:00 - 15:00
17:00 - 23:30
Sun:
12:00 - 23:30
17:00 - 23:30

Monday, 31 May 2010

Another song for abah and mama.....

The Rest Of My Life
I praise Allah for sending me you my love
You found me home and sail with me
And I`m here with you
Now let me let you know
You`ve opened my heart
I was always thinking that love was wrong
But everything was changed when you came along
OOOOO
And theres a couple words I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart
I feel so blessed when I think of you
And I ask Allah to bless all we do
You`re my wife(hubby) and my friend and my strength
And I pray we`re together eternally
Now I find myself so strong
Everything changed when you came along
OOOO
And theres a couple word I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart now that you`re here
Infront of me I strongly feel love
And I have no doubt
And I`m singing loud that I`ll love you eternally

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you.loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart

Sunday, 30 May 2010

Happy 7th Anniversary mama and abah today....

Abah dedicated this song to mama.....



May the happiness for ours ever after till the end....

mama and abah's wedding pictures 7 years ago....

Saturday, 29 May 2010

Mama proud with us-Zimah and Mizah......

We received another good behaviour certificates from teacher last week......Mama and abah proud with us..Thank you mama and abah.....

We promise to behave in good manner in class and at home too....Thanks to mama because always scold us at home if we do the wrong things to ensure we're behave in school.....We appreciated for your 'fierceness'.....We always love you mama and abah too(who is always support us......)

note: soon the picture of certificate...hehehehe........
(the 'beauty' of early education school system in UK...)

Wednesday, 26 May 2010

Tommorrow was one year we're here(new and cute flat house)....

How time flies....tomorow; 27.05.2010 remarks us that we've stay in this cute flat for one year.......We're so happy and happy and happy and happy live here.....eventhough the space for us to play around in the house is getting smaller and smaller.......due on the packed things done by mama and abah for us to back for good; next year insyaallah...hehehehehehe........

Monday, 24 May 2010

Hanie excited again to go school.....

In Monday....Hanie request to wear her sister's school unifrom to achik's house.....She is is excited to go school....(be patient dear....this coming Sept you will)......Mama just follow her request....Completed with the jumper....Hanie is so happy....